Our Non-Court Approach
We make divorce more tolerable.
70 years of combined legal experience counts much more than it costs
“It is the duty of all lawyers to seek resolution of all disputes at the least cost in time, expense, and trauma to the parties and to the courts.”
Preamble of the Illinois Supreme Court Rules-Code of Professional Responsibility for Lawyers
The Law Firm of Kulerski & Cornelison Divorce Lawyers centers its practice on the settlement approach to divorce. Going through a divorce or legal separation is extremely difficult, but certain steps can be taken to make your experience less lengthy, less costly, less painful, and less disruptive to the family unit.
We make getting you an early settlement our number one priority, and we try to keep your case as private, dignified, and as non-confrontational as is possible.
Many clients arrive in their lawyers’ office with gladiator expectations and are often greeted with the same attitude. It doesn’t have to be this way. If the spouses are willing, divorce attorneys can now use new settlement techniques to help change the dynamic and start the case by deliberately creating an atmosphere for settlement instead of war.
OUR JOB IS TO SETTLE YOUR CASE BEFORE YOU HAVE TO GO TO COURT
We think it is shameful that society has not put more emphasis on settling divorce disputes earlier rather than later. There is no rule that says you and your soon-to-be ex wait until the end of your case (after you have spent more time, energy, and money than you ever thought possible) to begin serious and good faith settlement negotiations.
Our Non-Court Approach is largely accomplished by using one of the three following alternative dispute resolution models:
All three of these settlement approaches are effective, speedy, and considerably less expensive than using our traditional divorce legal system. They are not for everyone, but they work wonderfully for reasonable people who want a reasonable divorce.
However, there is one more non-court settlement alternative:
If, for any reason, the soon-to-be ex-spouses do not avail themselves of the more formal mediation, collaborative or cooperative law settlement methods, we do what we can to urge the other attorney to meet with us and with the spouses at four-way settlement conferences.
We use these meetings to define the issues, hear from both spouses to determine their respective concerns, and attempt to create and discuss settlement options that both parties might find acceptable.
These four-way settlement conferences were all that we had to work with until mediation and collaborative and cooperative law arrived. Depending upon the personalities of the parties and of their attorneys, these meetings historically have been, and still can be, very effective and helpful.
However, the attorneys must work together to control emotional climate in the room, and make sure that their client isn’t using the meeting as a mere sounding board for his or her grievances. The parties must do their share by acting responsibly and in good faith. They must be able to put their differences aside long enough to allow them to negotiate in a positive fashion.
Disputants need to vent and be heard, and these meetings provide them with a forum to get their point across and validated.
Reasonable people could and should have reasonable divorces. However, this is not always the case. Unfortunately, reasonable people with good intentions can often get derailed, and fall prey to the perils of our adversarial divorce legal system. Our job is to try to prevent that from happening.
“The court will now come to order” or “Call your first witness” should be the last words you ever want to hear. Most people that have watched a divorce trial in person quickly agree that litigation is not what they want.
- You don’t hear any POSITIVE things about divorce litigation from people who have lived through it.
- You don’t hear any NEGATIVE things about divorce mediation or the collaborative or cooperative divorce law models from people who have used these approaches.
We urge you to consider using any of the above settlement approaches at the very start of your ordeal. There is little downside, and quite a bit of upside.
Why should you believe that two strangers (especially when they are divorce lawyers) would go out of their way to charge you less?
The answer is simple:
It is good for business, that’s why. What helps you helps us.
Our client referrals more than make up for the smaller fees. Our clients love the non-court approach, and we love having happy clients.
We wish you and your family every happiness, success and good fortune.
We practice law differently. We use a fresh approach – a pain saving approach.
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We welcome hearing from you and we invite your questions. There is no obligation. No one will ever know that we spoke or what we discussed. Everything you say is privileged, confidential, and completely classified. We do not maintain a mailing list and will not contact you unless you ask us to.
Calling us is easy – ask for Kari or Richard @ 630-928-0600.
If we are in court or in a meeting when you call, one of us will personally get back to you as quickly as possible. We are extremely discreet with callbacks and reply emails. Just leave your name and a secure email address or personal cell phone number.
Richard and Kari are staunch advocates of the non-court approach to divorce, and are also active and seasoned litigators with over 80 years of combined trial experience in the Illinois divorce courts of Cook and DuPage counties.