Addendum to the Participation Agreement
Law Firm of Kulerski and Cornelison
Cooperative Divorce Law
Addendum to Agreement to Participate
We, _______________________ and ______________________, the parties to the attached Cooperative Divorce Law Agreement to Participate dated _____________ , do hereby agree to do our best to conduct ourselves in full compliance with the behavioral suggestions contained in this Appendum.
- To act in good faith during negotiations
- To maintain and encourage a spirit of good will during negotiations
- To focus on meeting the financial and emotional needs of our children
- To address and negotiate all items pertaining to our spouse’s interim and permanent needs or concerns
- To promote plentiful and healthy parenting time for both parents
- To maintain the status quo of all assets, account balances, debts, and general financial wherewithal of the family
- To maintain all existing insurance coverage
- To refrain from incurring any unnecessary or unreasonable, additional credit card or other debt
- To focus on problem solving instead of fighting
- To listen carefully to the other party’s point of view
- To attempt to learn and understand the other party’s concerns
- To make room in our mind to house the other party’s point of view
- To show respect for the other party’s settlement position
- To refrain from interrupting when the other party is speaking
- To refrain from making any facial gestures of disapproval
- To overlook and tolerate harsh remarks or anger outbursts from the other party
- To share financial and other pertinent information in a timely manner
- To waive formal discovery whenever appropriate
- To use joint appraisals and mutually acceptable experts before obtaining individual expert opinions
- To look at the big picture and use the best interests of the family unit as a template when framing our individual settlement position
- To make only realistic settlement demands
- To keep an open mind toward compromise at all times
- To consider compromising if the other party indicates a similar willingness to compromise
- To continue communicating even when settlement seems impossible
- To agree that to reconvene within 24 hours, no matter what, whenever a negotiation sessions ends on a particularly sour note
- To consider using a mediator if our negotiations deadlock on only one or two issues
- To continue negotiating until there is clearly no hope left of reaching a settlement
Dated this ________ day of ________________ , 20___
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Richard and Kari are staunch advocates of the non-court approach to divorce, and are also active and seasoned litigators with over 60 years of combined trial experience in the Illinois divorce courts of Cook, DuPage, and Will counties.
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