Category Archives: Infidelity and Divorce

Dealing with Infidelity

You’ve been struggling with suspicions and now the truth – your spouse has been having an affair.  It feels as though your heart and soul have been ripped out, and it hurts.

“Infidelity stabs you over and over, at least initially,” says Dr. Bob Huizenga, marriage and family therapist, psychotherapist and author of Break Free from the Affair.  Dr. Huizenga says it’s imperative to get a hold of your feelings. This doesn’t mean getting rid of these awful feelings, just managing them. Continue reading Dealing with Infidelity

Infidelity – Should You Confront the Paramour?

Infidelity typically involves three people, the innocent spouse, the unfaithful spouse, and the ‘other person’ (the OP).

A common mistake is for the innocent party to seek answers to questions that maybe are best left unanswered. Frequently the innocent partner wants to confront the ‘other person’. It is a natural reaction, but is it constructive? Continue reading Infidelity – Should You Confront the Paramour?

Marital Infidelity: Telltale Signs of a Cheating Spouse

As divorce lawyers in DuPage and Cook Counties, we have access to experts who are willing to share their wealth of knowledge. One such professional is Dr. Robert Huizenga, CSW, LMFT, a Muskegon, MI Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist who specializes in the area of marital infidelity. Continue reading Marital Infidelity: Telltale Signs of a Cheating Spouse